Sunday, January 9, 2011

A long night

Jaymes was doing really good with his acid reflux, but the last week things have seemed to have gotten worse. He didn't seem upset or too bothered, but he was spitting up a lot. We put him to bed at 5:30 yesterday evening, and then put Isabella to bed at 7:00. We were looking forward to a very relaxing Saturday night, but the type of evening we actually had was anything but relaxing! Around 7:30 we heard him coughing/gagging on the monitor, when we went in there he was laying in a HUGE pool of spit up. Since it was completely soaked through his pj's and onesie we started running his bath. All of the sudden he started choking, then his eyes rolled in the back of his head, and he quit breathing! This has happened before. Just like before, I totally panicked, and Monte remained insanely calm while he quickly flipped him over and hit his back until he came to. I quickly called the neighbor to just come over and sit while Isabella slept. And we took off for the over 20 mile drive to the hospital. We decided to take him to the big hospital in the town we doctor in, instead of the little hospital in our town, since it doesn't have the best reputation. It seemed like hours before we got there, as Jaymes had several episodes of choking, spitting up, and not breathing on the way there. They had a TERRIBLE time trying to take his blood in the ER. They couldn't find any veins on him, and poked him about 8 different times. They would stick the needle in, then blindly keep it in there like they were fishing around. Monte and I were getting really upset, as Jaymes would scream his lungs out in pain. Now I know how Mary felt, watching her Son suffer. It was pure torture, I finally had to leave the room. They wanted to put the needle in his head to draw blood, but I said no. They finally got some blood out of his arm, and decided to do a heel prick and squeeze out as much blood as they could out of his heel. I also had to leave the room when they put a catheter in him to get a urine sample. Even through all of that, when they weren't prodding and poking him, he just kept cooing at the nurses and giving them huge smiles. While we were in the ER, he continued to choke and gag, until the only thing coming up was pure bile. All of his labs came back okay, and they decided it was a bad attack of his acid reflux combined with the stomach flu that is rampant around here right now. They decided to keep him overnight for observation. They got us up to a room around 11:00, and Monte went home to relieve our neighbor from babysitting duty. The on call doctor came in around midnight, and Jaymes was so exhausted he slept through the entire, thorough exam. He was dehydrated, so the dr. ordered some IV fluids, but when they hooked them up they discovered the IV port that the ER nurses had such a hard time putting in was really swollen, and no longer in his vein. They also could not find any where to put a new IV, and asked me if I would be opposed to them putting an IV in his head. I said yes! So they called the Dr. and he said if Jaymes was able to keep down his milk the next time he ate, he wouldn't have to get the IV. Thank goodness he kept everything down the rest of the day today! I spent the rest of the night holding, rocking, loving him, and watching all the monitors he was hooked up to. Monte and Isabella came this morning to take us home, Jaymes and I were both so glad to get home. I layed him on the floor when we got home, and he just kept laughing and smiling, like he was so happy to be home. Isabella told him all day how much she loves him, and how sorry she is that he had to go through all that. Please pray for my precious little baby, I don't know how many more scares like this we can handle! The ER doctor said if he continues to have bad acid reflux flares, he might have to have surgery.


Sunday, January 2, 2011

Christmas (with lots of pictures)

We celebrated Christmas a couple of weeks ago with my entire family. I hadn't been to my parents in over 7 months!! That's the longest I've ever been away from "home"!

It was also the weekend of my newest nephew's baptism. The three 4 year old cousins had a blast together!

My mom gave them matching outfits.


We came back to our house in awful weather, the roads were really icy. It should have taken us 4 hours to get home but it took 5 and a half. Jaymes travelled really well, thank goodness! We were home for one day, when we travelled again in the opposite direction to Monte's parents. We were there for 5 days over Christmas. Monte and I even got to go on a dinner and movie date to celebrate our 8th anniversary while we were there. Before opening presents on Christmas Eve, the grandkids acted out the Christmas story. You'll notice that baby Jesus has quite the modern "manger"! :)



My sweet boy decked out for Christmas. He slept most of the day, and was in bed for the night at his usual time of 5:30, he ended up being in this outfit for about 45 minutes. I was kind of sad because this is the first year we didn't go to Mass on Christmas Eve. We sent Isabella with the rest of the family on Christmas Eve, but Monte and I opted to go on Christmas morning instead, since Jaymes was in bed by the time the Christmas Eve Mass started. I'm a huge believer in a routine for babies, so I wanted Jaymes to stick to his normal early bed time, because I knew the next day would not be pretty otherwise.



Santa made a visit to Grandma and Grandpa's house on Christmas Eve, Isabella was not impressed . . .





A Barbie house! She plays with Barbies just like I used to - Barbie and Ken are the Mommy and Daddy, and they are always having babies!


Jaymes got his first John Deere tractor!

Ready for Church.


Dora Mega Blocks.



We ended the holidays with a big blizzard over New Year's. The interstate was even closed for 3 days. Our winters are so awful, we had to get a new snowblower this year, we didn't know how bad it would be when we moved here, and we got a 5 horse power snowblower, which just didn't cut it. At one point I looked out the window, and saw all the neighbors helping Monte out (he's in the front), we have the best neighbors!













Saturday, December 11, 2010

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

This and That

We took Isabella to the movie Tangled tonight, it was so good, we all really enjoyed it! My mother-in-law came to stay with us today until tomorrow, so she stayed home with Jaymes.


I'm an aunt for the 12th time!! My newest nephew and soon to be Godson, John Paul, weighed in at TEN pounds, and was 22 inches long. He's the biggest newborn I've seen, but he still seems tiny since I'm used to Jaymes. He's such a little sweetheart, I'm so glad we got to meet him over Thanksgiving.



Jaymes and I went to the "big city" 100 miles from us a week and a half ago, to get my Christmas shopping done. Toys R Us was CRAZY, and it was a weekday before Thanksgiving! I can't imagine what's it's like now. He and I had a great time together! :)



Our bank has a rewards program for using debit cards. Every time you use your debit card you get so many points that you can then redeem for certain things. We got a notice that we finally had enough points to redeem, I thought we would only be able redeem something super chincy, but was so pleasantly surprised when I logged on and found hundreds of really nice things we could get. We ended up getting a portable DVD player for the car and a $50 Toys R Us gift card, which we used for Christmas shopping. Awesome!! I used to be totally against DVD players in the car, but have come around. It's a four hour trip (one way) to my parents, so it will be really nice to have, and we'll only use it for long trips like that.




Isabella has gotten totally in to Barbies lately, and wants Barbie stuff for Christmas. That's all I ever did as a kid was play Barbies. However, I'm so discouraged by the Barbie clothes they have these days. I will not let Isabella dress her Barbies in anything immodest or skimpy, but decent Barbie clothes are impossible to find in stores. I was able to find some very cute, modest Barbie clothes on Etsy.com and am excited to give those to her for Christmas!




It's cold here! Temps have been in the single digits, but I know it will only get colder. This time of year I become sort of a hermit, and prefer to stay home most of the time. I'm so glad I usually don't have anywhere I absolutely have to be, since it's kind of a pain to get the kids dressed in a zillion layers, keep the baby completely covered, etc. and be in and out of the vehicle. I'll probably start doing errands while Monte's home so he can stay home with one or both of the kids, when it's so cold out.




I can't wait to start Christmas baking with Isabella!




In some ways I love having a newborn, but mostly I'm glad that stage is over. I love that he's on a good routine now, I love the early bedtime and sleeping all night, and I LOVE all the smiles, laughs, and coos that he gives us! And now he can slow down with his growing, because I want him to stay like this forever!


Tuesday, November 16, 2010

3 Months Old!

I am SO in love with this little guy, and he is a Mommy's boy for sure. I'll admit, when we found out we were having a boy I was just a teeny, tiny little bit disappointed, I know that sounds terrible. What was I thinking?! I am overwhelmed with love for my sweet boy. I think I'll baby him forever! :) I am just so happy, and also so thankful that I don't have any post partum depression this time around.
The first two months were rough, he wanted to eat non-stop, and was really fussy, especially in the evenings. I refused to accept the term colic, I felt like if he was crying and fussy there had to be some reason for it. I went off of dairy, but it didn't seem to help. We finally realized he was overtired! It sounds crazy, but that was all the problem was. We were keeping him up too late, giving him his bath late (around 8:00), which caused him to be overstimulated and overtired, which in turn caused him to not be able to settle himself down to get to sleep no matter what we tried. As soon as we started putting him to bed early, he became such a content, happy baby. He goes to bed every night at 5:30, then sleeps 12 hours until 5:30 in the morning, when he eats and goes back to sleep until about 6:30 or 7:00. During the day he can't be awake for more than about an hour at a time before he needs a nap, he sleeps A LOT! He's on a good routine now, and goes about 3 hours during the day between eating (I'm so glad the round the clock eating is over!). He goes to bed so early, it's kind of nice to have the evening free to spend a couple of hours of special time with Isabella, and then some time to ourselves after she's in bed.



He still likes to be swaddled. Question to fellow swaddlers - when did you stop swaddling?? Do I just keep doing it until he starts trying to "break free"?










He's all smiles for big sister! She's getting better with him, I really want to take the time sometime to blog about her adjustment, it wasn't going so well for awhile there . . .



There was a time when I thought he'd be attached to me in the Bjorn forever (and I'd then be in a wheelchair with a broken back!). But alas he really enjoys being put down and playing now. He loves this play gym and also his bouncy seat with the toy bar on it.




Hanging out on my bed, watching me pack for our weekend trip to Monte's parents.










Saturday, November 6, 2010

I love fall!

Even though we've had our first snowfall, it melted fast, and it's still fall around here . . . for now.







Thursday, November 4, 2010

Birthday Girl

November 2nd marked Isabella's 4th birthday, I can't believe my sweet baby girl is 4! She's had a couple of birthday celebrations, with one more yet to come with my family.

Here's my attempt at a Dora cake.


Celebrating with Monte's family.




This is what she saw first thing on her birthday morning - a Dora tablecloth, Dora balloon, Dora plate and cup, and presents waiting for her!



She's been REALLY wanting a coffee maker for her kitchen for the last year, she was thrilled to finally get one.



Magnetic wooden dolls, today's version of old fashioned paper dolls.



My mom came out to spend a couple of days with us, she offered to stay home with Jaymes while we did something special with Isabella on her birthday. She wanted to go the park and the zoo, and Applebees to eat. We made it to the park at the zoo, but unfortunately the zoo was just closing when we got there because they're on winter hours now. Thankfully, she didn't seem to mind.












Ending the day with a DQ ice cream cake brought by grandma!